Have you ever read the Boundaries Series by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend? I have to say that this is one of the best books I have ever read. As a former victim of Domestic Violence I had no idea what a boundary was or how I could set one. I never said … Read more
My rant to a harassing person from my past that will not respect my NO: Not everyone is our friend. There are those people who are alongside the Enemy and just wish to kill, steal, and destroy. There is good, and there is evil. Learning to discern the difference between the two has been a … Read more
Keeping your sanity – when you are sleeping with the enemy. Let me share a story. I came to the Lord during a time of crisis in my life. Isn’t that how it goes? Anyway, I was charmed by the ‘snake’ just like Eve in the garden. His talk was smooth, he was absolutely charming, … Read more
This blog is a letter to my children. I have been married to 2 Narcissists in my life. The Church calls them Jezebel Spirits. Here is my life lesson. In my opinion a Narcissist does not know what love is. It is always all about them. We are not people – we are possessions. And … Read more
Today I would like to share my experience with doors and tokens. Â This is a true story of how I learned to protect myself, my family and my home from the enemy. Thank you Lord Doors open from both sides. One side is good and one side is bad. And unfortunately when we open the … Read more
Here is your sign – No Narcissists Allowed! What is a narcissist you ask? I wish I would have asked – years ago! Wow, that would have saved a lot of heartache. Â I was married to one – well ok, two -before I found out what was really going on. I thought I was crazy. … Read more
I know I am sensitive with this issue. I have been stalked. I have had people chase me with cars, on foot, on the phone, in person, and even show up outside my glass sliding door. I have had things outside destroyed. I have had nails in my driveway, cars vandalized, broken windows, etc. I … Read more
They say misery loves company. Right? The more you talk negative about yourself, the worse you feel. Right? Came accross this list and wow, so true! Self sabotage is deadly. It hurts everyone who is trying to help you. It hurts yourself. You become so addicted to people treating you badly that if nobody does … Read more
I got this an email from my sister-in-law Kris today. It really blessed me, so I would like to share it with you. Maya Angelou is an inspiration, an Author, a Poet, and a Civil Rights Leader. You may have read her book “I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings”. A WOMAN SHOULD HAVE … … Read more
When I say todays Daily Prompt I remembered this wonderful series on boundaries.  I had to learn what a healthy relationship looked like as I was always the one  getting walked on. I seemed to say yes to everyone and everything. “Yes, I would love to get that for you… Yes, of course I want … Read more
More from “Boundaries”.  This lesson was the one that did it for me.  After reading/hearing this lesson, I finally understood what I was doing  that attracted the “thieves, robbers, and abusers”.  But, there is hope, thank you God, I can be taught!  Today I can say NO, today I can enforce consequences and protect myself! … Read more
Today we will look at what is within our boundaries. Â What do we have responsibility for? Â Seriously, I had to learn this. Â I was so busy taking care of others in my life that I did not “own” my own thoughts, feelings, or behaviors. Â I am grateful that I got this through my thick head! … Read more
