Keeping your sanity - when you are sleeping with the enemy. Let me share a story. I came to the Lord during a time of crisis in my life. Isn't that how it goes? Anyway, I was charmed by the 'snake' just like Eve in the garden. His talk was smooth, he was absolutely charming,... Continue Reading →
I Told Myself This Would Never Happen Again
I told myself this would never happen again. After getting out of the last abusive relationship, I vowed to myself that I would never let someone treat me like that ever again. And yet, not knowing how sick I was - the next relationship was more abusive than the last. The stakes were higher, the... Continue Reading →
Peace of Mind at Last
You are always free to make a new choice. Just because you are in a bad situation does not mean it will not change. It will get better - but somethings just have to change. I have been in bad relationships. I have been lied to, hurt, cheated on - again and again. Can I... Continue Reading →
Drowning in Fear – NaPoWriMo Day 12
Have you ever run across someone who blatantly refuses God? Or becomes angry when you come to The Lord? Yeah, me too. Many times the Abuser gets jealous of a woman's relationship with God and God's people. They suddenly realize they are not on the throne anymore. The Abuser is not God. No matter how... Continue Reading →
Crazy for Thinking I Could Change Him
Crazy. For thinking I was the Savior - that I could change someone's behavior. Crazy for thinking it was all about me. Crazy for thinking things would get better when you live with an Abuser - when actually things were getting worse day by day. Denial is powerful. Especially when you have given away your... Continue Reading →
No Wonder I Felt Sick Living in Abuse
SAN DIEGO, Feb. 5, 2014 /PRNewswire/ -- The National Family Justice Center Alliance has released the results of a national survey of domestic violence survivors – identifying major unmet needs and significant long-term health impacts from violence…
More Lies from the Abuser
Lies piled on lies. I'm not feeling very joyful today. Guess it's time for a 'rant.' I am so tired of the lies. My ex, the abuser in my past, keeps lying. He is not a part of my life, with the exception of the kids we had together. I have full placement and full... Continue Reading →
New law targets repeat abusers
"This law will help protect victims in our community and serve as a deterrent to future domestic abuse," says state Rep. Emily McAsey. Received from the Office of State Representative Emily McAsey: Legislation sponsored by state Rep. Emily McAsey to…
3 Ways to Stop Worshipping the Abuser
I remember a story my mom always used to tell me. She said," Diana, how do you boil a frog?" I said, " I don't know." She said, "A little at a time." You see when we put the frog in the water it was cold water. It wasn't hot, no reason to jump out.... Continue Reading →
Why Doesn’t She Just Leave?
It has been brought up again and again, "Why doesn't she just leave him?" I wish there was an easy answer. But it is different for each person. That is why it is IMPERATIVE, in my opinion, that a victim seek professional help. The Police get involved for a reason. There are counselors in place... Continue Reading →


