Yes, we are all well meaning Christians. But sometimes, in an effort to 'help' we make things worse for our brothers and sisters who are struggling. Let's face it, we all have stuff. Every single one of us, even the Pastors, even the Worship Team. This past week I have been going off some medication... Continue Reading →
Why Jezebels and Narcissits Spoil Every Holiday and How to Keep Your Peace
You may know one - or have known one. The Killjoy, the Jezebel or the Naracissit who consistantly ruins every holiday. It may be a birthday, a Thanksgiving, or even Christmas. Every year they make a scene - to be seen. It's almost like they are on steroids. All those criticizing, belittling, and blaming behaviors... Continue Reading →
Teens and Suicide
It's the Holiday season. And not everyone is happy about it. Our teens struggle with this ever changing world and the pressures of life. And the internet is not always helpful when you add in teen hormones. Time and time again our children get bullied online. As a parent it is hard to keep up... Continue Reading →
Know Your Circle
There are lots of so called leaders out there. Lots of people who are looking for followers. But not all of them are worth following. Some are wolves in sheeps clothing. They appear harmless and want to be your friend. But will slice you to pieces the minute you turn your back. Don't be deceived.... Continue Reading →
Predatory People and Toxic Relationships
My rant to a harassing person from my past that will not respect my NO: Not everyone is our friend. There are those people who are alongside the Enemy and just wish to kill, steal, and destroy. There is good, and there is evil. Learning to discern the difference between the two has been a... Continue Reading →
Not fueling the fire
Are you a water carrier or a fire carrier? Great post on gossip and fault finding and what to do when someone is gossiping or putting you or someone else down.
Sweetie, It’s Not You, Your Dad is a Narcissist
This blog is a letter to my children. I have been married to 2 Narcissists in my life. The Church calls them Jezebel Spirits. Here is my life lesson. In my opinion a Narcissist does not know what love is. It is always all about them. We are not people - we are possessions. And... Continue Reading →
Domestic Violence and the Workplace
She may be sitting next to you, or in the cubicle down the hall. The quiet girl who came in late today. Tear stains ran down her creek, and she was wearing sun glasses. Last time that happened it was because she had a black eye. Do you approach her? What do you say? Do... Continue Reading →
When is it Stalking?
I know I am sensitive with this issue. I have been stalked. I have had people chase me with cars, on foot, on the phone, in person, and even show up outside my glass sliding door. I have had things outside destroyed. I have had nails in my driveway, cars vandalized, broken windows, etc. I... Continue Reading →
Overview of Domestic Violence
Overview of Domestic Violence, A Dangerous Trend Report Released by NoBullying Today - http://nobullying.com/overview-of-domestic-abuse/ Overview of Domestic Abuse Domestic Violence kills; it breaks families and ruins the mindset of children and teens…
Teen suicide: Prevention is contagious, too.
Teen suicide – America's high rates and growing prevention efforts – is the topic of this week's cover story project. Here students at Chautauqua Lake Central High School in Mayville, N.Y., participate in a Sources of Strength suicide-prevention…
Facebook post leads to arrests in cyberbullying suicide case – FOX 13 News
Facebook post leads to arrests in cyberbullying suicide case - FOX 13 News. This is so sad. Imagine yourself as a teenage girl, trying to fit in. Then your best friend steals your boyfriend. And people you thought were your friends turn on you. Everyone starts trashing you online. You start checking your FB page... Continue Reading →


