I have known and know a few Narcissists in my life. They are also called Jezebels in the Church Arena. I have married more than one. I have worked for Narcissists. I have been led astray by a Narcissistic Pastor. The hardest part is seeing how the Narcissist has hurt my children. Their self image... Continue Reading →
Stop Shaming Me – It’s Not Helping
Yes, we are all well meaning Christians. But sometimes, in an effort to 'help' we make things worse for our brothers and sisters who are struggling. Let's face it, we all have stuff. Every single one of us, even the Pastors, even the Worship Team. This past week I have been going off some medication... Continue Reading →
Just Because I Am a Christian Doesn’t Mean I Am Buying Your Bullshit
I don't believe everything I hear these days. Maybe that's the wisdom that comes with getting older. I used to believe everything anyone ever said. I was so naive. Really. My heart is sad today. I went to visit another church and found out the old Worship Leader and band had left. Another Church had... Continue Reading →
Plagiarism is Stealing
What a Sheep Thinks When You Plagiarize Another Pastor's Sermon (Yes, my rant about how a 'sheep' feels when a Pastor takes credit for another Pastor's sermon.) When I wrote this blog last night I was angry. Today I am sad. I can't believe there are those who 'peddle' God's Word. And God says there... Continue Reading →
Have You Been Considered?
Have you been considered? By God? Remember Job? Remember Joseph? Are you going through a test right now? I am. I believe that this is a test, it is is only a test. God is more than able to meet all of my needs in Christ Jesus. He knows what I need even before I... Continue Reading →
He is Worthy – Word from the Lord
Here is the Word that was shared with our congregation from the Lord. This one really hit me. "Here me today children, I AM WORTHY TO BE PRAISED"
12 Distractions in Praise and Worship
My husband and I are blessed and privileged to lead the worship team at our local church. I am humbled how God can and does meet us where we are at. And how God can overcome our inadequacies. Pastor Jeff Hanson taught an amazing lesson on how God doesn't make mistakes. How all things work... Continue Reading →
The Know it Alls Need to Shut Up
Can I tell you I don't have it all figured out yet? Can I tell you I am still learning? And maybe, just maybe, I don't want to enter some people's drama. Is that bad? Idk. Guess I'm just spunky today... Have you ever met a Know it All? Someone who just loves to... Continue Reading →
Letting Go of Toxic People
Letting go of toxic people. People that are out to hurt you. Jealousy, insecurity, fear...all lead to anger. And Ms. D is not playing that game. Here are my thoughts to my "haters": I will not let your anger control me. You anger is exactly that - your anger. I am sorry you see me... Continue Reading →
Can You Put Down Your Stick?
Seriously. Can you put down your stick? I am so tired of people finding fault with each other. Who gave any of us the right to be each other's Holy Spirit anyway? You can do the right thing with the wrong spirit you know. And it will NOT be received. We are not stupid. We... Continue Reading →
Stop Tolerating the Jezebel Spirit
Stop TOLERATING the Jezebel spirit! These are my notes from a teaching I saw from Pastor Robert Morris of Gateway Church 2011 Pastors Conference in TX. The Jezebel spirit tries to get you to defile yourself on the inside or outside to disqualify you for ministry. We should cast her out and those who commit... Continue Reading →
Healing Your Soul – Part 1
Every once in a while The Lord leads you to a message, a Word that you needed to make it that day. My husband Bob has been listening to healing sermons by Evelyn Gipson out of Life Church in Roscoe, IL. Bob and I went to her Healing School about a year ago. We were so... Continue Reading →


