Where did my normal go?

What do you do when your world turns upside down? When things change so quickly you can’t keep up with yourself? Where did my ‘normal’ go? We recently had some family changes and I am still struggling to find my new normal. We are helping a young adult lady get on her feet. She moved in with us for a time. I can’t really go into details yet, there are still pending charges. So that’s why Ms D hasn’t been blogging much.

Anyway, I didn’t realize how attached I had become to my schedule – to my ‘normal’. Until things changed. I am driving a lot now, taking her back and forth to work along with 2 other kids and school and sports. Now I know how my mom felt – the TAXI man! Oh well, normal is overrated anyway. I think I’ll just be me – everyone else is already taken!

“My whole life I wanted to be normal. Everybody knows there’s no such thing as normal. There is no black-and-white definition of normal. Normal is subjective. There’s only messy, inconsistant, silly, hopeful version of how we feel most at home in our own lives. But when I think about what I have, what I strived to reach my whole life, it’s not the biggest or best or easiest or prettiest or most anything. It’s not the Manor or the laundry closet. Not the multi-million dollar inheritance or the poorhouse. It’s not superstardom or unemployment. It’s family and love and safety. It’s bravery and hope. It’s work and laughter and imperfection. It’s my normal.”
― Tori Spelling

“My 30 year attempt (and subsequent failure) to reach “normal” has brought me to ponder whether “normal” even exists, or if it is nothing more than delusional grandeur based in the sounds of those sweet sirens drawing my ship in all the wrong directions.”
― Dan Pearce, Single Dad Laughing

“If you are always trying to be normal you will never know how amazing you can be.”
― Maya Angelou

“Normality is a paved road: It’s comfortable to walk, but no flowers grow on it.”
― Vincent van Gogh


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Diana Rasmussen is a Faith Builder, Worship Leader, Veteran's wife, and a Certified Peer Specialist. At her blog Prayers and Promises she shares from her heart on how to find hope in this crazy world!

6 thoughts on “Where did my normal go?

  1. Diana, you are so awesome and such a blessings to many. May God pour out His blessings upon you for all that you do for others… And,,, I love the picture, “Normal is…” so true.

    1. Yeah. That picture got me too. I didn’t know if I should laugh…or cry! Thanks Angel, God bless you in your new adventure!

  2. Ooh, I understand what you’re saying. We’ve got a family moving in with us tomorrow for an indefinite amount of time. The children are 8, 5, and 2. Life as I know it is about to change.

    I had a six-month slice of “normal” once. It’s a little embarrassing to realize that during that time I became extremely self-centered. I need the continual interruptions of my all-important schedule to remind me that I’m not the center of the universe. 😉

    Thanks for “being Jesus” to your new household members. That’s awesome.


    1. Thank you Tami. May God bless you as you share your home with others and flood you with love, peace, and joy, in Jesus Name.

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