Early mornings are a great time to hear from God. Probably 'cause I haven't had any coffee yet, so He knows I won't talk much! Sometimes I ask God what I should write about. I really need His words, not mine to touch people. This morning He reminded me of the woman at the well.... Continue Reading →
How to Overcome a Narcissist and Wondering, Is Narcissism a Choice?
I have known and know a few Narcissists in my life. They are also called Jezebels in the Church Arena. I have married more than one. I have worked for Narcissists. I have been led astray by a Narcissistic Pastor. The hardest part is seeing how the Narcissist has hurt my children. Their self image... Continue Reading →
Jezebel Abuses Grace
The spirit of Jezebel loves to control others and take advantage of any situation. I have know many people in my life who have displayed this type of personality. You know the type: their way or the highway, always two faced, constantly a drama queen. They love to be the center of attention and will... Continue Reading →
Forgiveness
Forgiveness -Copyright 2016 Diana Rasmussen- Forgiveness doesn't mean that I accept what you did to me Forgiveness means I let go of taking vengeance against you Forgiveness means I trust my God to deal with you because He told me, "Vengeance is mine, I will repay." Forgiveness means I don't have to think about you... Continue Reading →
I See the Scars
I ran into a girl the other day with scars on her arms. My heart dropped. I know what that feels like to have no hope. To take the pain that you are feeling out on yourself. To sit in the bathroom with the door locked and just sit on the floor rocking back and... Continue Reading →
I See
I See -Copyright 2016 Diana Rasmussen I see the scars upon your arms My heart skipped a beat as I thought of what I could say To take away the pain that brought you to that place How I wish I could change the things that you've been through I'm here today to sit and... Continue Reading →
God Be the Thread
God I need you to be the thread To sew up my broken heart again Give me the strength to believe That with Your help things can change John 15:26-27 “But when the Helper Comforter, Advocate, Intercessor—Counselor, Strengthener, Standby comes, whom I will send to you from the Father, that is the Spirit of... Continue Reading →
Stand Up and Be Strong
It has been said that as a man thinks he is in his heart, so he is. If you think you are a victim, and refuse to take a step forward, you might stay a victim. Overcoming this mentality has taken me years. After living in domestic violence for years I had given away all... Continue Reading →
Learning What We Live
I came across this picture on Pinterest. I remember how true it is. And then I remember that anything I learned as a kid can be unlearned. Not all the behaviors I learned will benefit me in my future. And I had to let go of the pain to move forward. I... Continue Reading →
You Are More Precious Than You Know – For Posterity
Here is my response for the DAILY POST - For Posterity Your blog just became a viral sensation. What’s the one post you’d like new readers to see and remember you by? Write that post. You are more precious than you know. If you are like me than sometimes we let others define us.... Continue Reading →
Sweetie, It’s Not You, Your Dad is a Narcissist
This blog is a letter to my children. I have been married to 2 Narcissists in my life. The Church calls them Jezebel Spirits. Here is my life lesson. In my opinion a Narcissist does not know what love is. It is always all about them. We are not people - we are possessions. And... Continue Reading →
Journal Entries from a Former Domestic Violence Victim
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. I have not posted on this subject yet this month, but today I want to share a few entries from my journal. Someone you know is most likely affected by Domestic Violence. Last I heard DV affects 1/3 women and 1/6 men in the United States. And I am... Continue Reading →


